Calling fearless womxn who want to let go of sexual and erotic hangups and become shameless.

    Welcome to the sex-positive sisterhood you've been waiting for

    Is this you?

    • You may be married, in a long-term relationship, single, or any other relationship status.
    • You've done the work in coaching, therapy, or personal development, but you've never touched sex and sexuality before
    • You may come from  a Faith or conservative background or culture
    • You struggle to feel good in your body and to "let go"
    • You flinch when your partner touches you
    • You feel empowered in every other area of your life, but feel clueless about sex and intimacy
    • You know that there should be more to love and sex, but have no idea where to start
    • You want to dive deep into what it is to be who you really are as a completely free, erotic, sensual, sexual, and fierce being
    • You want complete integration: mind, body, soul, spirit, and sexuality
    • You refuse to settle in the rest of your life, and now refuse to settle in sex and love too
    • You believe that pleasure is important but struggle to embody it in your life and relationship/s
    • You’re no stranger to, “the work”. You’re fully committed to showing up. Now you’re ready for the next step
    • You’ve prayed, you’ve manifested, journalled, danced, done shamanic rituals, opened all your chakras, written forgiveness letters, maybe tried a yoni egg, and now you’re ready for the next step

    This is also you



    • You are creative, intuitive, and insanely curious about life
    • You never felt like you fit in anywhere, and hate feeling like you're in a high school popularity contest
    • You overthink a lot and want to know how to stop
    • You passionately believe in equal rights, inclusivity, social justice, and healing AND you want to feel in ease and flow.
    • You want a better world of equal rights for all, for girls to be empowered, and for women/womxn to step into their power all over the world
    • You’re determined to do better for your kids so that they can grow up without the shame you received, but need the tools and skills to know how


    Now it's 2021, you're ready to do something about it.

    Welcome, saucepot, this is for you!


    Take a breath, and get ready to step into the Shameless Woman you want to be


    I’m calling in 15 beautiful, fearless, bold souls who feel called for more in their life: love, life, and sex.​

    This is for you if you want to become truly SHAMELESS


    Womxn who are ready to face their inner taboos, inner demons, and inner shame and transform them into fearless allies.


    Womxn who are ready to completely shake up their relationship with sex and intimacy.


    Women who want to live outrageously, on fire, sensually, and in their erotic energy. 





    Turned On


    You're going to get the best from evidence-based sexuality education, combined with soul-led, holistic practices to integrate what you are learning into your every day life. 


    And you're going to be in a supportive sisterhood of other womxn on the same path as you.


    This isn’t just another “sex” course.


    This isn’t a course on how to please your man or partner in bed.


    And it definitely isn’t just a course on how to have wild sex. 


    It’s a complete reset and make over. 


    Sure, you can take classes.


    There are so many amazing resources out there such as books, podcasts, online resources, toys, videos, the lot. I recommend many of these to my clients and anybody who asks. 


    Thing is, you’ve done that, but has it shifted yet? No.


    You need not just amazing literature and videos, you need the support of

    a group of women behind you.


    MAGIC happens in a group. 


    Ready to take the next step?


    This isn't for you if you aren't keen on f-bombs, a cat occasionally crashing our calls, and don't like silly humour. But if you like to be a little bit snarky and like to banter, while also going deep into your emotions, you'll love it here.

    This is also for you if:

    • You’re nervous about this. You’ve been playing around with working on “sex”  for a while, and you need a final butt-kick
    • You’ve done your years of therapy, you’ve talked your heart out, you’ve read all the theories but still… it hasn’t shifted
    • You grew up in a conservative or religious household, community or culture. You were taught that anything to do with sex or your body was somehow, “wrong”, “bad”, or even, “dirty”.

    Even when you started to become sexually active as a grown woman, you still couldn’t shake off this feeling that something was… WRONG… with being naked or doing sexy things. 

    You feel called to finally release your shame and step into your brightest, boldest, sexiest self. 

    Does this sound yummy to you?

    Here’s just some of what you’ll get from 

    The Shameless Woman program:

    • Complete and utter freedom to be yourself. All of you. 
    • Unshakeable body confidence. 
    • Complete bedroom confidence
    • Being able to ask for exactly what you want… and then receive it
    • The ability to receive deep, deep pleasure
    • The ability to give pleasure in the way you want to
    • The ability to finally, deeply hear your body
    • Complete permission to say NO to anything you don’t want
    • Complete permission to say YESSS to anything and everything you do want, and could ever possibly want
    • More satisfying, deeper, richer, and earth shattering orgasms
    • Or the ability to orgasm
    • Living orgasmically
    • To be able to drink in every drop of pleasure from every moment
    • Feeling sexy and sensual in your own skin at any age, size, shape, body type, or physical ability
    • To stick a big middle finger up to your upbringing, your past, what your family, or even what your partner think of you

    Who am I?

    Hiya, I’m Lucy Rowett.

    Not only am I a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist (my official sounding titles), I’m a woman who has dedicated herself to the study and lived experience of eroticism. 


    I love combining the science with the woo, the mind and the body, the heart and the soul. I use elements from sexology, tantra, taoism, trauma theory, embodiment, and somatic tools. 


    I live in Brighton, United Kingdom and before lockdown, I was travelling a lot for work and training. 

    I’ve been quoted in major online publications such as Glamour, Dare Magazine, Mind Body Green, Brides Magazine, Sexual Health Magazine, Tinder Swipe Life, Womanizer, Dames, Men’s Health Australia, and Oprah Magazine. 


    I guess that means I’m pretty well respected in my field!


    I have trained with leaders in this field, received the BEST in sexology training including through certification through Sex Coach U, The American College of Sexologists International, Sexual Diversity Training with Pink Therapy, counselling certificates, trauma awareness training, and various other CPD trainings that I forget to count. 


    My approach is down to earth and working with all parts of you. Your mind, emotions, body, energy and spirit.


    What’s more, I’ve got real credentials to back it up too.


    I’m a professional member of the World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC) and the American College of Sexologists International (ACSI), and I’m also fully insured.


    Because I care about my work and I care about your transformation. I’ve invested in my training and I continue to invest in my continued professional development. I can honestly say,

    I bloody LOVE what I do!


    I’m proudly sex-positive, kink-friendly, pro-eroticism, GSRD aware, and sex-worker friendly. 

    Think of me as your sexual cheerleader and pleasure permission slip-giver. 

    The sister who’s giving you the sex education you never got at high school.


    The Shameless Woman is everything I give to my private clients, and then more. 


    Your sexiness and lust for life have absolutely nothing to do with… 

    … what size you are. 

    … how old you are

    … how many kids you have had– or not had

    … what medical conditions you have

    … what your day job is


    They are all stories you are telling yourself and that you have been told

    by the world we live in.


    Now substitute that for anything else that you really want for your sex life and relationships, and what you’ve been telling yourself. 


    Forget everything you have been taught about sex, sexuality, desire, and intimacy.


    And I’m talking ESPECIALLY the sex ed you got in high school (if you got any at all), what your mum told you (or didn’t tell you), what you were told by your faith community, the aunties, those bitchy girls, music videos, advertising or literally anywhere else. 


    I am calling you for a complete flip upside down. 


    This is only for the brave women/womxn because healing your sexuality is only for badasses.


    You’re going to be going against EVERYTHING you were taught and

    EVERYTHING you believed.


    You’re going to get really uncomfortable


    You’re going to have “those” conversations.


    And your friends and partner are going to wonder what the hell happened to you.


    And you won’t care anymore because for once in your life, you’re doing this just for you.


    You’re claiming your sexuality back on your own terms, your own rules, your own body. 


    You’re not doing this just to have more orgasms.


    Or to try out a couple of new positions and wear a fancy new bra.


    Those you can have, and more, but you’re doing this for something more. 

    You’re not just doing this for you. You’re not just doing this for your relationship or marriage. You’re not even just doing this for your kids so that they can grow up free from shame.

    You’re actually doing this for all the women who came before you, the women who are in your life, and the women who will come after you.

    By clearing this, you are clearing the bonds from your ancestors and from all the oppression that has kept women/womxn down. 





    I will shake you up. I will nudge you to confront your taboos. I will edge you out of your comfort zone while at the same time helping you to feel even more confident in setting your boundaries. 

    We will be exploring themes such as consent, boundaries, shame, the taboo, the dark erotic, pain/pleasure.

    This isn’t fluffy woo love and light. This will be edgy. You need to go down to go up. 



    This is a 12 week journey in a container with other women. 

    We start on February 3rd for an opening circle, and then meet weekly for 12 weeks on a Thursday evening. The closing circle is on April 16th, 2021.

    All sessions will be recorded and uploaded if you can’t make them live. 

    We will meet on Thursday evenings, for between 90 minutes to 2 hours

    Each session will start with dancing, a meditation, and a check in. Everything will be fully clothed.

    There will be a closed Facebook group for you to share your experiences and processing. 


    • PILLAR 1

      Week 1 – My Story

      Week 2- Safety

      Week 3- Shame

      Week 4- My body

    • PILLAR 2

      Week 1 – My pleasure

      Week 2 – Sexual energy

      Week 3 – My vulva

      Week 4 – Self pleasuring

    • PILLAR 3

      Week 1 – The Taboo and Fantasy

      Week 2 – Ask for what you want

      Week 3 – Your relationship/s

      Week 4 – Closing the gap


    Feb 3rd: Opening circle


    Then every Thursday evening 7-9 PM UK time 


    February 4th - 11th - 18th - 25th 

    March 4th - 11th - 18th - 25th

    April 1st - 8th - 15th - 22nd


    April 23rd: Closing circle

    And more BONUSES!​

    BONUS 1

    Your erotic toolkit: complete guide to pleasure and erotic wellness to create your daily practice. [Valued at £97]

    BONUS 2

    Class on mastering sexual communication [Valued at £107]

    BONUS 3

    Vulva and heart meditation audio [Valued at £47]

    BONUS 4

    5 day course on mastering your pleasure [Valued at £197]​

    BONUS 5

    Facebook support and community [Valued at £197]

    And there's more !


    There are a series of guest teachers lined up to give even MORE value to your experience, but I’ll share them soon. 

    The Shameless Woman will be a deeply healing and fully transformational experience. 

    It’s not the same as therapy, but it will be just as profound.



    Early bird full pay


    3 Month payment plan


    Monthly X 3


    “Working with Lucy is one of the best self care decisions I ever made. I am getting to know my body like I never had a chance to do before And no, it is not only about sex, vulva and orgasms. It has a lot to do with finding pleasure in everyday life. Through Lucy’s guidance I am reconnecting with my body, I am learning to read it’s signals and how to take good care of it. Lucy is a kind and generous soul whose level of patience never ceases to amaze me. She gently nudges me to leave my comfort zone at the same time encouraging me to set boundaries. If you are looking for a very knowledgeable, professional and experienced coach who is friendly, sensitive and has a good sense of humour, I definitely recommend working with Lucy!”


    “I felt so comfortable and natural working with Lucy on such personal material. She created a loving, safe, nurturing space in which I felt held, and free to talk about anything I needed to. She's also down-to-earth and super friendly! Thank you Lucy :)”


    Do I need to be in a relationship or married to take part in this?

    I’ve done a lot of work in therapy already, will this make any difference?

    What if I feel uncomfortable or weird?

    How do I pay?

    Can I pay in installments?

    Can you guarantee that this will change my life?

    What if I can’t attend the classes live?

    I really want to do this, but my life is so busy! How can I make this work?

    Can I get a refund if I don’t like the program?

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